Saturday, May 07, 2005

MYLF- Mami You Like to Fuck

I first heard the term "MILF" from a lover of mine. He called me that in bed and I turned my head around, because yes I was in that position, and asked him what the hell was that?
"Mother I Like To Fuck" he told me. Then he began to list a number of online porn sites dedicated to MILF's.
I looked at these websites and didn't feel like I looked like any of the women. They all looked older than me. Where was the site for the young MILF's?

Rachel Kramer Bussel asked what was sex like for women post childbirth. Again, I had a hard time relating. Last week el Cubano asked me if sex was different after I had la MapucheRican. The only answer I could think of was , " The logistics are harder". And to be honest that's all I can think about. My pregnancy was the longest stretch of my life without sex since I lost my virginity at 16 (although this long distance thing is coming alarmingly close). There are two men who slept with me before I was pregnant and after I was pregnant. The only thing I can say, is that I enjoyed sex with them way more before I was pregnant than after.

But that may have more to do more with experience. I was only 19 when I got pregnant and didn't have a long roster of lovers up to that point. Most of my sexual experience was gained after having my daughter.

So yes the hardest and most different thing about post birth sex is the logistics. Some men are assholes when it comes to dates and booty calls. I do not have the luxury to sneak out in the middle of the night for a fuck. A date requires me making babysitting arrangements. I don't do many sleepovers because I have to take my daughter to school in the morning after packing her lunch and making breakfast. There is no father around to take her on overnights or weekend visits. I am it.

One el Cubano's biggest concerns about us living together is that, the lack or privacy and time for us. Already when we have been together he has struggled with it, with the waiting for la MapucheRican to be asleep or with is quickly locking ourselves in a room when she has been engrossed in play or a television show.
It's like , " Ok we have 20 minutes. GO!". And with that we have been interrupted with a knock on the door and a request for something to eat or drink (at least she knocks no?).

So for all those other mami's wrangling the logistics of making love, fucking, hooking up and arranging booty calls between play dates, pre school, and pediatrician appointments, Happy Mami Day


Blogger nehanda said...

i wanted to wish you a happy mami day. i enjoy reading your blog, its enjoyable, interesting and oh so very honest. asante sana !

5/07/2005 08:20:00 PM  
Anonymous Heidi said...

Happy Late Mother's Day to one of my favorite MILF's!!!

5/09/2005 05:31:00 PM  

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